Hi all!
I hope this is Ok to post in here.
I have just moved in to my new flat 2 weeks ago. I haven't seen or even heard any Neighbours, I work late so im not really around much. I live alone with my wee dog, I dont party or have people round etc.
So last week i was in my sitting room, which joins on to my kitchen. My kitchen window was open, and i heard someone shouting, so i went to look and there was this elderly lady, staring in thru my window balling and shouting "You are a *******dirty ******* over and over again, "get those curtains ******* shut" I was absolutely shocked, I was shaking trying to explain to her that I was a female and just moved in, and why was she calling me This, but she just kept shouting she was calling the police. She walked around the front of the building and went in to the block of flats straight facing mine, then went to her window, which faces on to mine, she is one up, I'm ground floor, and stared in making faces and laughing for 2 hours. I let it go and figured she must be not well, as in no way have i done anything that would incur her to call me that etc, I was really hoping it was a one off, I was wrong. I walked out to my partners car today to get his tools and she opened her window and started shouting I was the same thing as last time and that she was gonna "stick a hot poker right up me" shouting and swearing. I went inside after again trying to explain I hadn't done anything. She then stared again for the whole time my partner and i were still in the flat, laughing and making gestures. When we left she started shouting things again. It's really scaring me, especially as I am ground floor. I feel so bad for her, not mad, just freaked out. What must my new neighbours think of me when she is shouting things like this. Today I called the police, just to see if they could pay a wee visit to her and try figure out what is going on. I'm almost certain she has dementia or similar, as its just not right. I hate to sound selfish, but how can I possibly stop This, if she is Ill and lives alone (as far as I know). I can't imagine having this happen all the time, I cant relax at all in my new place. I'm not around enough to know if anyone visits her or anything, and thot better to call the police than try sort it out my self as wouldnt want to scare the lady if she is seeing something that's not real and she truly believes I am a bad person. The police are coming tomorrow at 4:30pm, hopefully they can maybe speak to some of her neighbours and maybe they will know something. What can I do tho if this does keep happening? As i doubt the police telling her to stop will make much difference if the poor soul is going through something like dementia. Would I go to social work? Council?
Thanks so much in advance.
Xx
I hope this is Ok to post in here.
I have just moved in to my new flat 2 weeks ago. I haven't seen or even heard any Neighbours, I work late so im not really around much. I live alone with my wee dog, I dont party or have people round etc.
So last week i was in my sitting room, which joins on to my kitchen. My kitchen window was open, and i heard someone shouting, so i went to look and there was this elderly lady, staring in thru my window balling and shouting "You are a *******dirty ******* over and over again, "get those curtains ******* shut" I was absolutely shocked, I was shaking trying to explain to her that I was a female and just moved in, and why was she calling me This, but she just kept shouting she was calling the police. She walked around the front of the building and went in to the block of flats straight facing mine, then went to her window, which faces on to mine, she is one up, I'm ground floor, and stared in making faces and laughing for 2 hours. I let it go and figured she must be not well, as in no way have i done anything that would incur her to call me that etc, I was really hoping it was a one off, I was wrong. I walked out to my partners car today to get his tools and she opened her window and started shouting I was the same thing as last time and that she was gonna "stick a hot poker right up me" shouting and swearing. I went inside after again trying to explain I hadn't done anything. She then stared again for the whole time my partner and i were still in the flat, laughing and making gestures. When we left she started shouting things again. It's really scaring me, especially as I am ground floor. I feel so bad for her, not mad, just freaked out. What must my new neighbours think of me when she is shouting things like this. Today I called the police, just to see if they could pay a wee visit to her and try figure out what is going on. I'm almost certain she has dementia or similar, as its just not right. I hate to sound selfish, but how can I possibly stop This, if she is Ill and lives alone (as far as I know). I can't imagine having this happen all the time, I cant relax at all in my new place. I'm not around enough to know if anyone visits her or anything, and thot better to call the police than try sort it out my self as wouldnt want to scare the lady if she is seeing something that's not real and she truly believes I am a bad person. The police are coming tomorrow at 4:30pm, hopefully they can maybe speak to some of her neighbours and maybe they will know something. What can I do tho if this does keep happening? As i doubt the police telling her to stop will make much difference if the poor soul is going through something like dementia. Would I go to social work? Council?
Thanks so much in advance.
Xx
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