I had a bit of a melt down at the docs today, been working too long hours, stressing out about the MIL and her dementia (she lives with us) and work, stressing out about how my husband is coping looking after the MIL, went belly up at work with a deadline = melt down (hand me the tissues please doc and try not to squeak my way through meltdown!) Didn't realise how stressed I was, but my mind went into anxiety hyperdrive! But I come on here and see there are people with much more to deal with than me, even though the MIL is declining more quickly now, she is not too bad in comparison. Others on here have it harder so wonder what are you tips for keeping yourself on a level playing field? I've decided to allow myself a bit of slack and make myself realise you cannot do it all. Something to reflect on in the coming months. All Tips Welcome!