Hi My Father has been suffering from vascular dementia for the past 2 years and reluctantly my Mother has now had to place my Father into a dementia care home. After various trips back and forth to hospital he is now living full time at the care home. He has fallen several times, sleeps in his chair at night and refuses to let the nurses change or dress him. They have told us that they cannot force him to do anything that he does not want them to do. One nurse even thought that when visiting , in the afternoon, we should tell him to go to bed at night. We feel that his standard of care does not warrant the £700 per week my Mother is currently having to pay plus £100 from the gov. Should we expect more from the nursing staff, should they be coaxing him into letting them help him more than they do? Has anyone else gone through similar issues like we are going through?
Regards T
Regards T