Since moving mum in with me her days have settled into a routine of sorts, kinda reminds me of having a young child in the house, can anyone relate to this?
6.00-6.15am Me -walk to toilet/small drink, back to bed( sleep)
7.30am open curtains
9.00-10am Carer -toilet/breakfast/meds back to bed ( sleep)
1.30-2.30pm Carer - toilet/lunch/chat/ back to bed ( sleep)
5.30-7.00pm Carer - toilet/dinner/meds/wash or shower/clean nighty/chat/ watch TV
7.00pm Me - l go in close curtains put side light on and sit with mum, if agitated l sit with her, if not she often wants to get into bed and sleep.
Through the night she will get herself to toilet or commode and will come find me if anxious and l will sit with her.
We have tried keeping her awake and engaging her in TV radio etc but she isnt i interested
My instinct is to let her set her pace and to keep a good routine as this make for less anxiety, but its difficult to know if im.failing.
6.00-6.15am Me -walk to toilet/small drink, back to bed( sleep)
7.30am open curtains
9.00-10am Carer -toilet/breakfast/meds back to bed ( sleep)
1.30-2.30pm Carer - toilet/lunch/chat/ back to bed ( sleep)
5.30-7.00pm Carer - toilet/dinner/meds/wash or shower/clean nighty/chat/ watch TV
7.00pm Me - l go in close curtains put side light on and sit with mum, if agitated l sit with her, if not she often wants to get into bed and sleep.
Through the night she will get herself to toilet or commode and will come find me if anxious and l will sit with her.
We have tried keeping her awake and engaging her in TV radio etc but she isnt i interested
My instinct is to let her set her pace and to keep a good routine as this make for less anxiety, but its difficult to know if im.failing.