I would really appreciate people's comments as I'm not sure what to think now.
I've been aware that one one of the things you really should do for a pwd is to organise LPA for them to ensure they have family to make decisions. However if there is only one member of the family (including friends etc) who lives in the same country, but they are already making decisions that are more for their own convenience rather than the welfare of the pwd, would it be better not to battle for LPA but let it default to the SS (I say 'pwd' but he is not diagnosed and, at present, I believe he has capacity)
I've been aware that one one of the things you really should do for a pwd is to organise LPA for them to ensure they have family to make decisions. However if there is only one member of the family (including friends etc) who lives in the same country, but they are already making decisions that are more for their own convenience rather than the welfare of the pwd, would it be better not to battle for LPA but let it default to the SS (I say 'pwd' but he is not diagnosed and, at present, I believe he has capacity)