Hi,
My 88 year old Mum's got quite advanced dementia and is about to come out of hospital after being very ill with a sepsis caused by a urinary tract infection. My 91 year old Dad has been my Mum's sole carer for over 5 years, but he can't take care of her at home anymore due to her needs having increased and his health having deteriorated. My Mum therefore needs to go into a nursing home. My Mum's just had the basic check list assessment which has triggered the need for the second assessment for NHS Continuing Healthcare (so the second assessment hasn't happened as yet). If my Mum doesn't get full or part NHS Continuing Healthcare funding, my Mum has savings so she will have to pay for her nursing home fees until her savings dwindle.
Neither my Dad or I have a power of attorney for my Mum and there's no one who is willing or able to become her Deputy...My Dad's just not up to all the paperwork and responsibility and I wouldn't be allowed to become her Deputy as I have serious healthcare needs myself and couldn't visit her on a regular basis and I don't live in the same area as my parents, which makes things very difficult...
So, the bottom line is that we'll either have to ask the Local Authority to become my Mum's Court of Protection Deputy or instruct a local solicitor privately tor them to become my Mum's Deputy. (A solicitor quite close to where my Dad lives is actually a Court of Protection Panel Deputy, so I guess he should know what he's doing.)
I would be grateful for any views and experiences as to which of the two options would be preferable. I appreciate that once either the LA or a local solicitor become my Mum's Court of Protection Deputy we wouldn't have any legal right to a say in what happens to her, e.g. what nursing home she goes into etc...But would, for instance, a local solicitor be more likely to involve us in any decision making regarding her welfare more than a LA would - or would the LA be more likely to involve us? Also, would a local solicitor be likely to charge more for their services out of my Mum's savings as Deputy than the LA would?
A big thank you in advance for any replies.
My 88 year old Mum's got quite advanced dementia and is about to come out of hospital after being very ill with a sepsis caused by a urinary tract infection. My 91 year old Dad has been my Mum's sole carer for over 5 years, but he can't take care of her at home anymore due to her needs having increased and his health having deteriorated. My Mum therefore needs to go into a nursing home. My Mum's just had the basic check list assessment which has triggered the need for the second assessment for NHS Continuing Healthcare (so the second assessment hasn't happened as yet). If my Mum doesn't get full or part NHS Continuing Healthcare funding, my Mum has savings so she will have to pay for her nursing home fees until her savings dwindle.
Neither my Dad or I have a power of attorney for my Mum and there's no one who is willing or able to become her Deputy...My Dad's just not up to all the paperwork and responsibility and I wouldn't be allowed to become her Deputy as I have serious healthcare needs myself and couldn't visit her on a regular basis and I don't live in the same area as my parents, which makes things very difficult...
So, the bottom line is that we'll either have to ask the Local Authority to become my Mum's Court of Protection Deputy or instruct a local solicitor privately tor them to become my Mum's Deputy. (A solicitor quite close to where my Dad lives is actually a Court of Protection Panel Deputy, so I guess he should know what he's doing.)
I would be grateful for any views and experiences as to which of the two options would be preferable. I appreciate that once either the LA or a local solicitor become my Mum's Court of Protection Deputy we wouldn't have any legal right to a say in what happens to her, e.g. what nursing home she goes into etc...But would, for instance, a local solicitor be more likely to involve us in any decision making regarding her welfare more than a LA would - or would the LA be more likely to involve us? Also, would a local solicitor be likely to charge more for their services out of my Mum's savings as Deputy than the LA would?
A big thank you in advance for any replies.