On Monday our beautiful 15 year old Dalmatian was put to sleep. For some time now my OH has taken very little notice of her & to be quite honest I didn't think it would affect him much at all. He normally shows very little affection, emotion or empathy and is completely wrapped up in his own world. However he seems to have gone completely to pieces and spend much of the days in tears and repetitively asks where she is, when her funeral is, why did she die etc etc.
My concern is that our dog's death has pushed my OH's low mood into depression. He is terribly agitated & can't sit still for more than a few minutes before he is pacing around looking for things. He knows she has died so it's not that he's looking for her but her death does seem to have become his new obsession. He keeps bursting into tears and normal distraction tactics just aren't working. Does anyone have any ideas? I'd like some time to grieve aswell but at the moment all my energy is spent trying to keep my OH on an even keel.
My concern is that our dog's death has pushed my OH's low mood into depression. He is terribly agitated & can't sit still for more than a few minutes before he is pacing around looking for things. He knows she has died so it's not that he's looking for her but her death does seem to have become his new obsession. He keeps bursting into tears and normal distraction tactics just aren't working. Does anyone have any ideas? I'd like some time to grieve aswell but at the moment all my energy is spent trying to keep my OH on an even keel.