Hi all
I am new to this forum and hope it is ok to post for this kind of advice.
My grandma was diagnosed with Alzheimers over a year before my grandad passed in feb 2017, for months he kept he it a secret from the rest of the family because she asked him to. When he was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer he had no choice but to let us know as we needed to assist her with her tablets and keep an eye out for her decline. Once he past away it was obvious he had been covering for her a lot and started to go down hill fast, to the point she forgot it was his funeral. She often goes searching for him and calling my aunties up in distress saying she cannot wake him up, or she cant find him, to which we manage to calm her down and she soon forgets.
I had heard that scrap books are great for people suffering with Alzheimers and I would like to make her one for a Xmas present. My problem is, I would obviously like to include my grandad in the scrapbook but im scared she will see the pictures of him each time she looks at them and starts searching for him again, i want her to get comfort from the scrapbook and dont want her going through a grieving process each time, but on the other hand if shes having a good day (which are getting less and less) she will be upset that i have not included him. Maybe I should re-think the idea of the scrapbook?
Thoughts please?
Thank you in advance
I am new to this forum and hope it is ok to post for this kind of advice.
My grandma was diagnosed with Alzheimers over a year before my grandad passed in feb 2017, for months he kept he it a secret from the rest of the family because she asked him to. When he was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer he had no choice but to let us know as we needed to assist her with her tablets and keep an eye out for her decline. Once he past away it was obvious he had been covering for her a lot and started to go down hill fast, to the point she forgot it was his funeral. She often goes searching for him and calling my aunties up in distress saying she cannot wake him up, or she cant find him, to which we manage to calm her down and she soon forgets.
I had heard that scrap books are great for people suffering with Alzheimers and I would like to make her one for a Xmas present. My problem is, I would obviously like to include my grandad in the scrapbook but im scared she will see the pictures of him each time she looks at them and starts searching for him again, i want her to get comfort from the scrapbook and dont want her going through a grieving process each time, but on the other hand if shes having a good day (which are getting less and less) she will be upset that i have not included him. Maybe I should re-think the idea of the scrapbook?
Thoughts please?
Thank you in advance