Hi Everybody,
I am new here and I need some advice.
My Grandad has advanced dementia and is no longer able to hold a conversation, he can answer simple questions with yes or no, or this one or that one or both, say hello and goodbye but that is about his limit. Until this week he has lived with my Grandma, but she is aging and as Grandad's care needs have increased significantly, it has become necessary for Grandad to go into Permanent Residential Care.
Prior to all of this I have visited my grandparents most weeks and I would say hello, how are you to Grandad and would get a short answer of hello, I'm fine, and the rest of the visit would be spent mainly talking to Grandma, before I would say my goodbyes to grandad and leave.
I am now in the position of not wanting to abandon my Grandad in the home so it is now going to be necessary to visit him on my own, the problem is, what do I do when I am there as I won't be able to talk to him much.
I was just wondering what other people in my position do when they visit relatives on their own?
Any Suggestions would be gratefully received.
Many thanks,
NF1986
I am new here and I need some advice.
My Grandad has advanced dementia and is no longer able to hold a conversation, he can answer simple questions with yes or no, or this one or that one or both, say hello and goodbye but that is about his limit. Until this week he has lived with my Grandma, but she is aging and as Grandad's care needs have increased significantly, it has become necessary for Grandad to go into Permanent Residential Care.
Prior to all of this I have visited my grandparents most weeks and I would say hello, how are you to Grandad and would get a short answer of hello, I'm fine, and the rest of the visit would be spent mainly talking to Grandma, before I would say my goodbyes to grandad and leave.
I am now in the position of not wanting to abandon my Grandad in the home so it is now going to be necessary to visit him on my own, the problem is, what do I do when I am there as I won't be able to talk to him much.
I was just wondering what other people in my position do when they visit relatives on their own?
Any Suggestions would be gratefully received.
Many thanks,
NF1986