Hi all,wanted some advice on general hygiene and the toilet it’s just started and I think I’m going crazy - my partner has Alzheimer’s dementia early stages some days as you all know are better than others.
So I have come home during my lunch to find OH wearing the same clothes as yesterday despite putting all clean clothes out this morning as I always do.
I check the toilet as this is something I now have to check daily and i find it repulsive only to find poo smears all over the inside of the lid,the seat,and all inside the loo after cleaning it up and calling other half to the bathroom and explain what iv had to do and suggested he showered and freshen up - he replies I don’t understand I’ve cleaned the toilet I never left a mess - omg is he serious !!!!!
after a lot of persuading to shower and change the clothes from the day before he continued with his day with his friend as if the whole episode never happened and I know in comparison to what I have read from others on the forum that this may be nothing but every day something new takes place and I’m just left thinking what am I doing☹️
So I have come home during my lunch to find OH wearing the same clothes as yesterday despite putting all clean clothes out this morning as I always do.
I check the toilet as this is something I now have to check daily and i find it repulsive only to find poo smears all over the inside of the lid,the seat,and all inside the loo after cleaning it up and calling other half to the bathroom and explain what iv had to do and suggested he showered and freshen up - he replies I don’t understand I’ve cleaned the toilet I never left a mess - omg is he serious !!!!!
after a lot of persuading to shower and change the clothes from the day before he continued with his day with his friend as if the whole episode never happened and I know in comparison to what I have read from others on the forum that this may be nothing but every day something new takes place and I’m just left thinking what am I doing☹️