I had a carer in my house this week as part of a double up, a male and he has a sense of humour but an odd one,he said to my mother "This is my house" I can't remember my mums exact response as I was shocked by the carer saying that,he then said "I live here"
Well I do live here with my mum and I didn't say anything as I didn't want to make an issue while care was being given,I know people like to have a laugh and I'm sure it relieves a stressful day but I thought that was a stupid thing to say to somebody with dementia,it would make you wonder what on earth he was saying to people on visits when he was working solo and in a house where a family member didn't live.
Well I do live here with my mum and I didn't say anything as I didn't want to make an issue while care was being given,I know people like to have a laugh and I'm sure it relieves a stressful day but I thought that was a stupid thing to say to somebody with dementia,it would make you wonder what on earth he was saying to people on visits when he was working solo and in a house where a family member didn't live.