I find my mother will scream her head of when she sees the scissors to Cut her nails, even thought when cutting them they do not hurt her.
Yes I read it also that even thought the pain is there, they can't express it to say where the pain is coming from .
Like even thought my mother has arthritis in her knees, she can't tell me for unknown reason that its hurting her, like she did in the past . So will carry on walking like there nothing wrong .
She use to squint her eyes very tightly of on for a long time , when I ask her why she doing that she touch the side of her leg saying my leg hurts me , Now she does not squint her eyes or tell me her leg hurts her , but still walking with Zimmer frame
Then the other week When the nurse injected a the needle into a Vain in her hand , My mother screamed blue murder .
I am still in shock or wonder (I don't know which) that my laddo appeared to be in no pain whatsoever when he died of cancer - despite it being so aggressive.
Was your husband not taking any morphine for the pain ?