My mum has vascular dementia. She was sectioned at Christmas and taken to a psychiatric unit. It was a terrible experience for us all but especially my mum. She was so scared and freaked out. They lock them in their rooms at night. When they would 'lock her up' became an fixation for her. It was a huge worry. Well, since then she's been home with visiting care. It hasn't worked. We were on care provider no.2 but my mum became aggressive and refused to have them stay most days. Without warning they removed care summarily..just like that. I desperately tried to get her into a home for respite but that's not working. The home I wanted her to go to won't take her. They don't think they'd be able to help her..which is fair enough. I respect their view, and accept it. Now....in the absence of any care package they're going to section her again. They want to do it before the weekend. Because of bed shortages they'll likely take her back to the same place she was in before. I really think this time that'll be it. I don't think she'll ever get home again. Tonight could be her last night 'free' ..ever.
I live 250 miles away ... I feel useless. I feel upset and sad and angry.. mostly sad and lost. I don't know what anyone can say.. I just wanted to tell someone. x
I live 250 miles away ... I feel useless. I feel upset and sad and angry.. mostly sad and lost. I don't know what anyone can say.. I just wanted to tell someone. x