Having done both, I think it's a lot harder clearing a house when someone's gone into a care home, than when they've died.
You feel as if you're throwing their life away. Almost inevitably there will be so much stuff nobody's going to want, even for free. You feel so disloyal, throwing out things that are so familiar.
One thing of my mother's that I kept was a wooden spoon she'd had for ever - it was worn right down on one side.
You feel as if you're throwing their life away. Almost inevitably there will be so much stuff nobody's going to want, even for free. You feel so disloyal, throwing out things that are so familiar.
One thing of my mother's that I kept was a wooden spoon she'd had for ever - it was worn right down on one side.