Hello everyone, I have been following this site for quite some time as my mum has Alzheimer's and we believe she is entering the final weeks. I've found a lot of useful support and information here already, but have a couple of questions that I hope can be answered.
Mum has declined quickly over the last month or so following a series of fits. Her GP has modified her medication to a point where she only takes what is absolutely necessary and she is kept comfortable. This last fortnight she has pretty much stopped eating apart from a couple of teaspoons of porridge or yogurt at breakfast time. Her fluid intake is decreasing and averages out at less than 400ml per day. She's had days where it's been below 100ml and often spits her drinks out or stores it unswallowed in her mouth and it dribbles out. She also rarely wakes up now and feels cold to the touch; appearing to be in a very deep sleep which remains undisturbed no matter how much noise there is around her. So question 1 is, does this sound like she is "winding down"?
Breathing wise she seems to take very deep breaths for 30 seconds or so, then it looks like she stops completely for a while, before resuming with the deep breaths... is this normal? The breaths are very controlled, not like panting.
I've read a lot of posts where "End of Life meds" are mentioned. What exactly are these, and when are they prescribed? There has been no mention of these so far for mum.
My family and I are doing everything we can for mum. Visiting daily and talking to her, even though there's no reaction at all. We've each told her how much we love her and how it's OK for her to stop fighting. I pray that the end is as painless and peaceful as possible.
Thanks in advance for any words of advice.
Aurora
Mum has declined quickly over the last month or so following a series of fits. Her GP has modified her medication to a point where she only takes what is absolutely necessary and she is kept comfortable. This last fortnight she has pretty much stopped eating apart from a couple of teaspoons of porridge or yogurt at breakfast time. Her fluid intake is decreasing and averages out at less than 400ml per day. She's had days where it's been below 100ml and often spits her drinks out or stores it unswallowed in her mouth and it dribbles out. She also rarely wakes up now and feels cold to the touch; appearing to be in a very deep sleep which remains undisturbed no matter how much noise there is around her. So question 1 is, does this sound like she is "winding down"?
Breathing wise she seems to take very deep breaths for 30 seconds or so, then it looks like she stops completely for a while, before resuming with the deep breaths... is this normal? The breaths are very controlled, not like panting.
I've read a lot of posts where "End of Life meds" are mentioned. What exactly are these, and when are they prescribed? There has been no mention of these so far for mum.
My family and I are doing everything we can for mum. Visiting daily and talking to her, even though there's no reaction at all. We've each told her how much we love her and how it's OK for her to stop fighting. I pray that the end is as painless and peaceful as possible.
Thanks in advance for any words of advice.
Aurora