I actually work for Alzheimer's Society and did start my days as an adviser, is this a help or a hindrance!
I have spent the last 9-12 months supporting both parents one of which had a mini stroke some years ago and we have seen a decline in memory over the last couple of years. The other parent was showing signs of severe depression and anxiety and is being treated accordingly. It is apparent now that diagnosis's are looming for both of them over the coming weeks. They have always been independent and refuse all help (except from me). I have finally got them to agree LPA (which I am in the process of completing online) but they have backtracked on getting carers in; they would be self funding so it's incredibly difficult to arrange without their permission. They have admitted they don't see what I see and lets see what happens once we get through this bleep. They are on a lot of medication for other health issues and this is hit a miss; I do a weekly medication box for them both but it's up to them on a daily basis; a pivotal wouldn't work for them for many reasons. They have lost a lot of weight over the last 12 months, GP's are aware and again without the support of carers we can't manage this. Mom has lost all concept of meal preparation and dad does his best talking into consideration he never had to cook until the last few months. I can constantly throwing away out of date food...you can get an idea of the pattern.
My working experience has mainly been when 1 parent was diagnosed the other parent was on hand to be a carer, I have no idea what to do next when I have both of them. I have used all my knowledge as an adviser and now just waiting for a crisis to happen. Any pearls of wisdom would be appreciated.
I have spent the last 9-12 months supporting both parents one of which had a mini stroke some years ago and we have seen a decline in memory over the last couple of years. The other parent was showing signs of severe depression and anxiety and is being treated accordingly. It is apparent now that diagnosis's are looming for both of them over the coming weeks. They have always been independent and refuse all help (except from me). I have finally got them to agree LPA (which I am in the process of completing online) but they have backtracked on getting carers in; they would be self funding so it's incredibly difficult to arrange without their permission. They have admitted they don't see what I see and lets see what happens once we get through this bleep. They are on a lot of medication for other health issues and this is hit a miss; I do a weekly medication box for them both but it's up to them on a daily basis; a pivotal wouldn't work for them for many reasons. They have lost a lot of weight over the last 12 months, GP's are aware and again without the support of carers we can't manage this. Mom has lost all concept of meal preparation and dad does his best talking into consideration he never had to cook until the last few months. I can constantly throwing away out of date food...you can get an idea of the pattern.
My working experience has mainly been when 1 parent was diagnosed the other parent was on hand to be a carer, I have no idea what to do next when I have both of them. I have used all my knowledge as an adviser and now just waiting for a crisis to happen. Any pearls of wisdom would be appreciated.