Hello all. My mum has mixed dementia and is very confused (i.e. date, time, place and sometimes forgetting us/ husband) but she is still at home and able to dress herself etc (if with a little assistance). I live away with my husband (no kids) as does my brother, his wife and kids. I thought it would be nice to all spend Christmas day at mine as I have room and to enable mum to see the grandkids etc, maybe for the last time (or last time of knowing us given the rate of progression). Also I wanted to give my dad (main caregiver) a break for a few days. The idea was to treat it as a mini holiday for them both in a safe environment.
I'm now worrying about everything. The 3 hour drive her and dad will do to come here. The disorientation and fear of not being in her home environment. The noise from 2 noisey 3 year olds (Christmas day only) and the agitation this will cause.
Does anyone have experience of taking a relative out of their home environment for Christmas and how did it go? I hope I've done the right thing.
Merry Christmas to you all and hope its as stress free as possible.
Caz
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I'm now worrying about everything. The 3 hour drive her and dad will do to come here. The disorientation and fear of not being in her home environment. The noise from 2 noisey 3 year olds (Christmas day only) and the agitation this will cause.
Does anyone have experience of taking a relative out of their home environment for Christmas and how did it go? I hope I've done the right thing.
Merry Christmas to you all and hope its as stress free as possible.
Caz
X