Hi, my husband has dementia and every evening he puts his shoes on and wants to 'go home'. He has lived here for 52 years and I have been here with him for 38 years, but he just does not recognise this house as his home. At first I tried taking him out in the car and bringing him back but now the nights are dark and I am tired after being with him all day, I don't feel I can do that. Also he doesn't want to wash, shave or clean his teeth because he says the razor, etc. isn't his. He leaves 10p pieces about to pay for the electricity for the people who 'live here'. Suggestions please on how to cope, he's really driving me mad and he gets so angry if he can't get out. I let him out one night and the next thing he was back and banging on the doors and windows to get in again, he said he didn't really want to come back here. It's just impossible to watch TV because he keeps going on and on about it.