After looking after my wife who has alzeimers for 6 years at home and 3 years in and out of different care \ nursing homes I feel really drained. l have had a really stressful journey with trying to insure she gets good quality care from the providers.
All sorts of things have happened in this period of time and l have had to deal with as they accured.
My wife is now very active ( walking up and down cant settle more than a few minites) and needs a carer with her for all the hours she is awake.
A couple of months ago she was sleeping mostly all the time and couldnt be aroused but since removing a certain medicine she is now very active.
She has no expression on her face now and she cant communicate and seeing her like this has really stumped me, how do l deal with this.
Some of her carers dont talk to me or my wife which is not helping when l visit her.
I feel that l have tried my best to help her and keep an eye on her care but l cant do nothing about this stage.
Its upsetting me seeing her like this and I have to ask myself do l shorten my visiting hours and days.
Anyone else who has gone through this stage.
All sorts of things have happened in this period of time and l have had to deal with as they accured.
My wife is now very active ( walking up and down cant settle more than a few minites) and needs a carer with her for all the hours she is awake.
A couple of months ago she was sleeping mostly all the time and couldnt be aroused but since removing a certain medicine she is now very active.
She has no expression on her face now and she cant communicate and seeing her like this has really stumped me, how do l deal with this.
Some of her carers dont talk to me or my wife which is not helping when l visit her.
I feel that l have tried my best to help her and keep an eye on her care but l cant do nothing about this stage.
Its upsetting me seeing her like this and I have to ask myself do l shorten my visiting hours and days.
Anyone else who has gone through this stage.