I can't find anything like this so I wonder if anyone has experienced it. Mum has been in the Care Home for over a year and gradually deteriorating, albeit slowly. The last month or so she has been dropping off to sleep in the daytime, then would wake for a few minutes, then drop off again. She was eating all three meals and some snacks in between. Two weeks ago the Home asked me to go in for a review of her Care Plan. When I got there they asked me to write her End of Care Plan and a Bereavement form. They told me that it's normal practice and a good idea to sort these things to avoid any upset nearer the end of her care, which I didn't mind. A few days after that I received a phone call to tell me that Mum had deteriorated. I am sure they must have known something. She was in her room, in a special hospital bed, sleeping. Just continually sleeping. She was being woken as much as the carers could in order to get some liquids into her and maybe a little food. But in the last week she has been solidly ''asleep'' and not had much in the way of food/liquids or meds. I have been to see her every day and there's no change. She just sleeps although occasionally her eyelids will move a little. I am talking to her and reading to her as I believe her hearing is the last sense to go. Not that she understands what's being said anymore, but a presence is better than no noise at all. She seems to be pain free and very peaceful in her sleep. The doctor has been and told me that her chest is clear and her breathing is regular, although a little shallow. He is coming again to decide if she should be on the End of Life plan. So, my question is, has anyone come across this ''sleep'' state before? I realise with the lack of food and liquid she may have just a few days left, but it just seems so strange that she lays there in this sleep. Then suddenly she will take a spoonful of food. Her eyes don't open. So it's like she is too exhausted to open her eyes although she still feels the need to eat something. This is very hard for my dad to understand because he sees her like this and doesn't understand it. We really thought she would leave us over the weekend but she is still with us. I don't know how much longer she will be with us....so difficult to tell.