We had almost completed the LPA forms, just a couple of ticks to be replaced with crosses and a spelling mistake to be corrected as far I could see. We had agreed I would be sole attorney, with her daughter as replacement. I have slowly taken over banking and suchlike by having my name on a card for her account and DWP authorising me to act for her on any correspondence. Signatures have been witnessed and OH chiropodist with nursing experience has acted to certify the process.
So, her son and daughter were both happy with that arrangement, so long as I consult them both before making any final decisions on the medical or care side.
Then it got complicated. Daughter does not want her brother anywhere near the proceeding, but told hi what was happening. She is happy to be a replacement attorney herself. Son happy for me to be sole attorney, but wants to be a replacement attorney as he doesn't trust his sister.
OH does not want them to argue, not quite sure she fully understands what is involved even though she does understand that it involves trusting me fully with her affairs and trusting her daughter to take over if anything happens to me.
Changing everything by reprinting some of the pages and initialising other changes has got us this far.
Can I, or should I, put OH son on as a second replacement attorney without telling his sister and hope it all works out?
Any feedback or advice is welcome while we wait for AgeUK to phone back for a chat and a check over the paper work. Thanks, R
So, her son and daughter were both happy with that arrangement, so long as I consult them both before making any final decisions on the medical or care side.
Then it got complicated. Daughter does not want her brother anywhere near the proceeding, but told hi what was happening. She is happy to be a replacement attorney herself. Son happy for me to be sole attorney, but wants to be a replacement attorney as he doesn't trust his sister.
OH does not want them to argue, not quite sure she fully understands what is involved even though she does understand that it involves trusting me fully with her affairs and trusting her daughter to take over if anything happens to me.
Changing everything by reprinting some of the pages and initialising other changes has got us this far.
Can I, or should I, put OH son on as a second replacement attorney without telling his sister and hope it all works out?
Any feedback or advice is welcome while we wait for AgeUK to phone back for a chat and a check over the paper work. Thanks, R