can someone please help me here ,
of late my mother has suffered some very bad uti infections , and is on antibiotics the uti makes my mom very nasty and evil ect ect until cleared up,
last week a district nurse and a manager from the carer company went in to see her without any appointment made or phone call , they just turned up
mom asked them what they were doing there , they replied come to see you if your ok ,
it ended up that it was for a assessment of her capacity , which was said that she has full capacity at that time , they also asked her to sign something which she refused they also said that my mothers wishes was for the authorities to not liase with my daughter about her care , and also my mother wants to revoke the power of attorney ,
taking into place I have put several complaints in on my mothers behalf to find out they cannot be looked into ,
I called the chc funding people to ask why this has happened and mom not being aware why they went to visist her , they said we have strict intructions not to talk to you from my mother ,
I finally got intouch with someone fron chc continuing health care , who stated that they are looking for a placement home for my mother ,
I said no your not ,,,
I do have power of attorney health an welfare and property and fin ,
I have spoke to my mother about this , and she has stated that she has not said anything to them and they tried to make her sign something but she didn't , I told her what they are planning to do , she said no way are they putting her in a home ,
im very scared I don't know what way to turn or where to go ,
please help
Sandra
of late my mother has suffered some very bad uti infections , and is on antibiotics the uti makes my mom very nasty and evil ect ect until cleared up,
last week a district nurse and a manager from the carer company went in to see her without any appointment made or phone call , they just turned up
mom asked them what they were doing there , they replied come to see you if your ok ,
it ended up that it was for a assessment of her capacity , which was said that she has full capacity at that time , they also asked her to sign something which she refused they also said that my mothers wishes was for the authorities to not liase with my daughter about her care , and also my mother wants to revoke the power of attorney ,
taking into place I have put several complaints in on my mothers behalf to find out they cannot be looked into ,
I called the chc funding people to ask why this has happened and mom not being aware why they went to visist her , they said we have strict intructions not to talk to you from my mother ,
I finally got intouch with someone fron chc continuing health care , who stated that they are looking for a placement home for my mother ,
I said no your not ,,,
I do have power of attorney health an welfare and property and fin ,
I have spoke to my mother about this , and she has stated that she has not said anything to them and they tried to make her sign something but she didn't , I told her what they are planning to do , she said no way are they putting her in a home ,
im very scared I don't know what way to turn or where to go ,
please help
Sandra