Some years ago when I joined TP my main concern was that my husband was being scammed and had been for some time by a distant relative. This was someone he met up with from time to time and who had convinced him he was going to be a great success in business but needed injections of capital.
I knew from the start he would never see his money again but could not convince my husband of this. The person had never and would never be allowed in my house. He often phoned though to meet up with John and always to get more money out of him.
I took advice on TP as by that time a diagnosis of Alzheimer's had been made, and removed my husband's bank cards. I had POA as do my daughters. Words were exchanged but I stuck to my guns. He then was carrying only cash. Usually a couple of twenties and some change. The scammer's demands went from hundreds to twenties! I cut it down to tens. His demands matched whatever my husband had on him.
I warned him on the phone that I had given all his details to social services who had advised taking out an AP1. I blocked his phone number. By this time we were several years in to the diagnosed illness and John was getting lost and police involved. I could no longer let him out on his own and he simply forgot all about this lowlife. Of course the money will never be recovered but that is the least of it.
He has realised that if he phones from a landline other than the one I have blocked then I will answer. His question is always "Is John still alive?" I don't speak and just hang up and block that number too.
We have children and grandchildren yet this creature clearly imagines he should have access to our hard earned savings. I am tough enough to handle this but it demonstrates what the elderly are up against when a determined conman sees an opportunity.
I knew from the start he would never see his money again but could not convince my husband of this. The person had never and would never be allowed in my house. He often phoned though to meet up with John and always to get more money out of him.
I took advice on TP as by that time a diagnosis of Alzheimer's had been made, and removed my husband's bank cards. I had POA as do my daughters. Words were exchanged but I stuck to my guns. He then was carrying only cash. Usually a couple of twenties and some change. The scammer's demands went from hundreds to twenties! I cut it down to tens. His demands matched whatever my husband had on him.
I warned him on the phone that I had given all his details to social services who had advised taking out an AP1. I blocked his phone number. By this time we were several years in to the diagnosed illness and John was getting lost and police involved. I could no longer let him out on his own and he simply forgot all about this lowlife. Of course the money will never be recovered but that is the least of it.
He has realised that if he phones from a landline other than the one I have blocked then I will answer. His question is always "Is John still alive?" I don't speak and just hang up and block that number too.
We have children and grandchildren yet this creature clearly imagines he should have access to our hard earned savings. I am tough enough to handle this but it demonstrates what the elderly are up against when a determined conman sees an opportunity.