Hello everyone - I know this is a common issue with AD patients, but I guess I'm looking for similar experiences. My mum came home from hospital on 21st December after four and a half months - she fought off sepsis, bless her, and we're very lucky that she's still with us at all. My dad fondly believed that, once she was back at home, she'd miraculously start to eat again - she'd been refusing food for about six weeks by the time she was discharged, eating only enough to sustain a small mouse most days. She'll insist one of three things: 1. She feels sick. 2. She has a pain in her stomach. 3. She isn't hungry. "How can she not be hungry when she ate nothing at all yesterday?" my poor dad asks me. I so wish I knew. She appears oblivious to the concern, and just gets hacked off when we continue to try and persuade/bribe/threaten her into eating. Her conversation has reduced dramatically, too, since her recent illness, and her mobility has inevitably suffered, and she has to use a walking frame, and a wheelchair if she goes out (not very often now). My dad flatly refused an enhanced care package when she was due for discharge - he insisted that four carer visits per day were far too intrusive, the three she'd been having prior to her illness were "fine" and he could cope with her otherwise (he can't). He is quickly getting to the end of his tether now, and my sister and I worry for his wellbeing - he is 86. He was quite resistant to the advice offered by the occupational therapist at the hospital, much to our horror, and in the end, the two of us decided that we would need to just back off a bit and let things run their course, and that he would very soon realise that the professionals knew what they were talking about. We do, of course, make sure that we either ring him or visit every day, just for our own peace of mind, but it's clear that he isn't coping now. Has anyone managed to overcome the refusal to eat scenario, even just slightly? Any tricks that we could use to try and get a few more morsels down her? She will drink soup (my dad makes his own, and it's really good), so that is at least a starting point. I'll shut up now, but thank you all for taking the time to read my post. XXXXX