Hi all,
I am new on here and have found it useful to read a lot of posts.
Just be warned I am known to waffle, so please bare with!
My mother in law was diagnosed with semantic dementia about 2 years ago, it has been hard as docs and dvla have said she can't drive so straight away part of her independence was taken from her, which has been an on going struggle for her and for us (myself and her son) as we get the raw end of it, with shouting, swearing making hersalf fall and sometimes throwing things!.
I have read a lot on this type of dementia, I don't know about anyone else, but from what I have read to actually being with her is a massive difference. I'm getting more and more confused as I look more!
He main reason for this post is that I need advice............ Jan (mother in law) has started to get a lot more forgetful, aggesive, not listening if we are trying to help and basically doing as she wishes, even if that means its not in her best interests. That includes, last week. We had to take her to the hospital as she had blood coming out of her back passage. The drs tried to get blood for tests and she ended up ripping the canula out of her arm! I'm sure you can imagine what that scene was like
Anyway, where does this progress to now? How else can I help? I wanthelp her stop being so aangry at everything. Her social worker wants to do another assessment bit she won't agree to it. I feel like I'm loosing the woman I used to know!!
Has anyone else been in this kind of situation ?
Sorry again if I was waffling!
Kirsty
I am new on here and have found it useful to read a lot of posts.
Just be warned I am known to waffle, so please bare with!
My mother in law was diagnosed with semantic dementia about 2 years ago, it has been hard as docs and dvla have said she can't drive so straight away part of her independence was taken from her, which has been an on going struggle for her and for us (myself and her son) as we get the raw end of it, with shouting, swearing making hersalf fall and sometimes throwing things!.
I have read a lot on this type of dementia, I don't know about anyone else, but from what I have read to actually being with her is a massive difference. I'm getting more and more confused as I look more!
He main reason for this post is that I need advice............ Jan (mother in law) has started to get a lot more forgetful, aggesive, not listening if we are trying to help and basically doing as she wishes, even if that means its not in her best interests. That includes, last week. We had to take her to the hospital as she had blood coming out of her back passage. The drs tried to get blood for tests and she ended up ripping the canula out of her arm! I'm sure you can imagine what that scene was like
Anyway, where does this progress to now? How else can I help? I wanthelp her stop being so aangry at everything. Her social worker wants to do another assessment bit she won't agree to it. I feel like I'm loosing the woman I used to know!!
Has anyone else been in this kind of situation ?
Sorry again if I was waffling!
Kirsty