I am concerned that my wife is starting to have 'problems' with memory etc.
I think it would be classified as MCI at present, but I'm worried as her mother developed full Alzheimer symptoms in her 80's ( she once recognised me, but couldn't name her two daughters). My mother also had dementia, but not too bad and was very physically frail as well.
My wife seems to get increasingly confused about words, repeats questions to me (several times, about trivial things like meal decisions), often appears distracted, often doesn't appear to have listened to what I have said. She also appears to have problems grasping anything out of the ordinary, new apps on her tablet, how to use her phone (she seems to forget). She is 67, we have been married for 36 years. She is quite irritable much of the time and very forgetful generally. She does suffer menopause symptoms, but I think this is only partly to blame.
I know if I suggest visiting the doctor we will have a big row, but I'm starting to get rather tired. Both my parent have passed in the last four years, my father with a horrible cancer, my mother basically just gave out. I'm hurting inside, I love my wife to bits but I'm struggling.
When should I bite the bullet and suggest the doc? Should I get our lovely children to make a decision on how she is?(they both live away from home and have their own lives to lead).
Help! Please!
I think it would be classified as MCI at present, but I'm worried as her mother developed full Alzheimer symptoms in her 80's ( she once recognised me, but couldn't name her two daughters). My mother also had dementia, but not too bad and was very physically frail as well.
My wife seems to get increasingly confused about words, repeats questions to me (several times, about trivial things like meal decisions), often appears distracted, often doesn't appear to have listened to what I have said. She also appears to have problems grasping anything out of the ordinary, new apps on her tablet, how to use her phone (she seems to forget). She is 67, we have been married for 36 years. She is quite irritable much of the time and very forgetful generally. She does suffer menopause symptoms, but I think this is only partly to blame.
I know if I suggest visiting the doctor we will have a big row, but I'm starting to get rather tired. Both my parent have passed in the last four years, my father with a horrible cancer, my mother basically just gave out. I'm hurting inside, I love my wife to bits but I'm struggling.
When should I bite the bullet and suggest the doc? Should I get our lovely children to make a decision on how she is?(they both live away from home and have their own lives to lead).
Help! Please!