Help and advice please,
My mother lived alone til recently, I have recently separated and partly due to me spending so much time at my mothers, this also making me a miserable irritable sod affected my marriage so much that wife left. now im living with 80 yr old mother who 50% of the time is driving me absolutely nuts. I go to work each day at 8am and get back around 6.30, I have arranged for a lady to come in each day while i am at work and check on mum, make sure she has things to eat and to sit and chat for a couple of hours, my brother pops up every other day and a couple of other people pop in to see mum each week, however i have from 12 - 69 calls every day from my mother saying she dos`nt live here and wants to be taken home (from what she says she wants to go to her grans house) every ten mins while i am home with her she thinks she is somewhere else and i explain the whole situation every ten mins - i feel i am losing my mind too - how do others cope ? please help me - what else can i do or should she go into a home?
My mother lived alone til recently, I have recently separated and partly due to me spending so much time at my mothers, this also making me a miserable irritable sod affected my marriage so much that wife left. now im living with 80 yr old mother who 50% of the time is driving me absolutely nuts. I go to work each day at 8am and get back around 6.30, I have arranged for a lady to come in each day while i am at work and check on mum, make sure she has things to eat and to sit and chat for a couple of hours, my brother pops up every other day and a couple of other people pop in to see mum each week, however i have from 12 - 69 calls every day from my mother saying she dos`nt live here and wants to be taken home (from what she says she wants to go to her grans house) every ten mins while i am home with her she thinks she is somewhere else and i explain the whole situation every ten mins - i feel i am losing my mind too - how do others cope ? please help me - what else can i do or should she go into a home?
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