Hi, Everyone--
I've posted before, but usually as an Encourager.
Tonight, I need a little help/guidance. My husband has Parkinson's and vascular issues.
I'm having difficulty getting him to comply with doctor's visits. Not just their advice, I am having problems getting him to go just for scheduled visits and/or checkups.
I know we all know how PWD can think they're "JUST FINE."
In our case, my husband is getting suspicious of doctors' motives, advice, etc. He just won't trust them and I'm finding myself unable to cajole, convince, or even push him to go. Our last visit, he told me categorically to "shut up" and not talk to the doctor AT ALL and let him handle everything. He was rude and short with our GP, who found it strange, but didn't seem to put 2 and 2 together, just thought Hubby was mad at him for some reason. Since I was not permitted to speak, it's a strange new situation for me. I will speak with his assistant and explain the situation to her so she can tell the doctor, but right now, just wondering HOW to get Hubby to comply with medical visits.
So far, we have nothing major or unexpected to deal with, but he has some issues that need to be tracked quarterly, but I just can't get him to keep a doctor's appointment to get things checked/monitored (like blood sugar levels, blood pressure, etc.).
Any tips or ideas will be greatly appreciated; this is a strange new development.
Thank you for any suggestions,
Willow Tree
I've posted before, but usually as an Encourager.
Tonight, I need a little help/guidance. My husband has Parkinson's and vascular issues.
I'm having difficulty getting him to comply with doctor's visits. Not just their advice, I am having problems getting him to go just for scheduled visits and/or checkups.
I know we all know how PWD can think they're "JUST FINE."
In our case, my husband is getting suspicious of doctors' motives, advice, etc. He just won't trust them and I'm finding myself unable to cajole, convince, or even push him to go. Our last visit, he told me categorically to "shut up" and not talk to the doctor AT ALL and let him handle everything. He was rude and short with our GP, who found it strange, but didn't seem to put 2 and 2 together, just thought Hubby was mad at him for some reason. Since I was not permitted to speak, it's a strange new situation for me. I will speak with his assistant and explain the situation to her so she can tell the doctor, but right now, just wondering HOW to get Hubby to comply with medical visits.
So far, we have nothing major or unexpected to deal with, but he has some issues that need to be tracked quarterly, but I just can't get him to keep a doctor's appointment to get things checked/monitored (like blood sugar levels, blood pressure, etc.).
Any tips or ideas will be greatly appreciated; this is a strange new development.
Thank you for any suggestions,
Willow Tree