Hi All
First of all I am new here so hello.
Now the title isn't as bad as what it sounds so allow me to explain.... I care for my soon to be 96 year old grandmother in addition to her daily careers and other not so close relatives.
She has no problem with her hearing and can normally hold a conversation fairly well but various symptoms of her alzheimers are starting to ramp up such as thinking 6pm in the evening is actually 6am which isn't helped by the darker nights coming in, making random phone calls to people such as the GP surgery and then not making any sense etc... anyways one thing I have noticed recently as within the last few weeks that she replies to something I have said as if I have said something totally different and I have had to repeat myself several times before what I have said is registered with her and then she gives the appropriate reply. The first few occasions this occurred I assumed she had just misheard me but now it seems like it's yet another alzheimer's thing. I don't want or like to shout at her and just to clarify the shouting wasn't an anger or patience thing it was just in a desperate attempt to get through to her and once I raised my voice she did actually register what I was saying... normally I would have just given up or said nothing at all but in this instance it was regarding her medication and therefore had no choice but to carry on with the topic of conversation.
As I say this isn't a hard of hearing thing it's clearly related to her alzheimers and was just wondering if anyone else has experience of this with their loved ones and if so how do you approach the issue as I don't want to be raising my voice or shouting at my grandmother even if it's with the best of intentions and done believe it or not with love and concern.
Many Thanks
Hackery
First of all I am new here so hello.
Now the title isn't as bad as what it sounds so allow me to explain.... I care for my soon to be 96 year old grandmother in addition to her daily careers and other not so close relatives.
She has no problem with her hearing and can normally hold a conversation fairly well but various symptoms of her alzheimers are starting to ramp up such as thinking 6pm in the evening is actually 6am which isn't helped by the darker nights coming in, making random phone calls to people such as the GP surgery and then not making any sense etc... anyways one thing I have noticed recently as within the last few weeks that she replies to something I have said as if I have said something totally different and I have had to repeat myself several times before what I have said is registered with her and then she gives the appropriate reply. The first few occasions this occurred I assumed she had just misheard me but now it seems like it's yet another alzheimer's thing. I don't want or like to shout at her and just to clarify the shouting wasn't an anger or patience thing it was just in a desperate attempt to get through to her and once I raised my voice she did actually register what I was saying... normally I would have just given up or said nothing at all but in this instance it was regarding her medication and therefore had no choice but to carry on with the topic of conversation.
As I say this isn't a hard of hearing thing it's clearly related to her alzheimers and was just wondering if anyone else has experience of this with their loved ones and if so how do you approach the issue as I don't want to be raising my voice or shouting at my grandmother even if it's with the best of intentions and done believe it or not with love and concern.
Many Thanks
Hackery