Hallo! I'm also new to this and already have found so much information and friendly people - My Mum is waiting for scan results to determine which type of dementia she has - the last few months have been a rollercoaster of events - Dad died in April, and she was his carer - we didnt realise how bad she was because Dad hid it from us, so to begin with I felt I had lost two parents - she's 83 and they had been married for 55 years and for the last 10 she saw to his every need, and now is a poor lost soul. Its heartbreaking and hard work, but I keep reminding myself that she;s still MUM , just lost inside this illness. This forum is fantastic and I no longer feel on my own!