My grandad was diagnosed with Alzheimer's and vascular dementia around 4 and a half years ago. My grandmother has been his carer since. Up until Christmas time my grandad was fairly mobile, was able to feed himself,go to the toilet alone and you could have some sort of conversation with him. Around a month ago he seemed to have downhill massively, he became very aggressive towards my gran, hitting her, grabbing her and pushing her. He was wetting himself regularly and wouldn't eat or drink anything. My gran had no help at all, she didn't have carers or any support.
It all got too much for her when he hadn't eaten or even attempted to drink anything for around 4 days and he was admitted to hospital. They decided to make him nil by mouth.
We have been told that he only has 3 months left. So we are all preparing ourselves.
How long have other people had with their loved ones when they are at this stage?
It all got too much for her when he hadn't eaten or even attempted to drink anything for around 4 days and he was admitted to hospital. They decided to make him nil by mouth.
We have been told that he only has 3 months left. So we are all preparing ourselves.
How long have other people had with their loved ones when they are at this stage?
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