Hi, my mother is about to turn 80 and was diagnosed with vascular dementia about 3 years ago. At the moment she is sleeping virtually all the time. Dad has to get her up for breakfast and about an hour after that she is fast asleep. He then wakes her up for lunch and she falls asleep again until about 4.30pm. They then have dinner and she goes to her bed at 9.30pm.
She is unsteady on her feet, she is not incontinent and she can still remember our names but doesn't know what day it is and can't remember where they are going if dad takes her in the car somewhere. He has to keep telling her where they are going.
She isn't aggressive and hasn't wandered off anywhere, probably because she is always asleep.
My brother is coming over to Scotland from America with is 2 year old in 8 weeks time so that my parents get a chance to see both my brother and his daughter as he doesn't get over often. On Saturday, when my husband and I were visiting, she said that she wasn't sure that she could live for another 8 weeks. She has no medical basis to say that and hasn't been told by a doctor that she is nearing the end of her life.
If you read about all the stages I honestly can't work out which one she is at which is why I thought I would post this message to see if anyone can help.
She is unsteady on her feet, she is not incontinent and she can still remember our names but doesn't know what day it is and can't remember where they are going if dad takes her in the car somewhere. He has to keep telling her where they are going.
She isn't aggressive and hasn't wandered off anywhere, probably because she is always asleep.
My brother is coming over to Scotland from America with is 2 year old in 8 weeks time so that my parents get a chance to see both my brother and his daughter as he doesn't get over often. On Saturday, when my husband and I were visiting, she said that she wasn't sure that she could live for another 8 weeks. She has no medical basis to say that and hasn't been told by a doctor that she is nearing the end of her life.
If you read about all the stages I honestly can't work out which one she is at which is why I thought I would post this message to see if anyone can help.