My mother in law has very advanced Alzheimer's and dementia. It happened quick. Very quick. My father had just been diagnosed and my mother is very disabled. My wife and I are very much at our limits. We t struggling. I'm very worried bout my wife. I'm very worried bout me. I can't help my parents enough because all our time is taken up by my mother in law. My brother in law lives 250 miles away an has his head buried so far in the sand that he is actually a negative force, he actually thinks she's gluten intolerant. I've never seen such denial. My sister and two step sisters are unfortunately the three most selfish brats I've ever met. They Hav never in 25 years lifted a finger to help care for my mam and are conspicuous by their absence at the moment. My wife has suffered from vertigo an meningitis because of this. Neither of us r sleeping, I Hav no appetite and my temper is thru the roof. I injured myself and went on sick just before this went stratospheric. That was 8 months ago and I ain't been able to go back to work because I just simply wouldn't Hav time to fit it in. This hasn't helped. Oh, I allmost forgot. My 6'5" tall 16 stone father is becoming aggressive because of his Alzheimer's. The worst problem is I can no longer sit and listen to my mother in law spew hour after hour of abuse, spite and bile at my wife. It's like havin nails dragged down my soul, it makes me scream inside that I can't protect her. Sorry for the rant. I thought it would make me feel better. But no