Its three days till Christmas and I can't leave the house. I've got 4 children and very little in the way of presents. Since dad's funeral on Wednesday I've just cleaned all day everyday. I don't have to speak when I'm cleaning it's a coping thing.
The thought of standing in shops with hundreds of people is making me panic. I'm struggling I've never been like this. I don't know how I feel. I feel lost. I've tried so many times to come and up date your all how things are going but even that's hard cause I don't know how there going.
Dad only died two weeks ago and I feel like everything is supposed to be back to normal now. But how can it I've not even cried properly. When does that happen when does it all come out.
I thought taking dad's flowers to mums grave would help but I just stood there feeling empty.
I have nine for Christmas dinner and no food.
The landlord still wants his inspection I'm just ignoring them now till new year.
Every day a new brown envelope turns up with more information required for dad's personal affairs.
I'm fighting for breath now just writing all this stuff.
Oh god what am I gonna do.
The thought of standing in shops with hundreds of people is making me panic. I'm struggling I've never been like this. I don't know how I feel. I feel lost. I've tried so many times to come and up date your all how things are going but even that's hard cause I don't know how there going.
Dad only died two weeks ago and I feel like everything is supposed to be back to normal now. But how can it I've not even cried properly. When does that happen when does it all come out.
I thought taking dad's flowers to mums grave would help but I just stood there feeling empty.
I have nine for Christmas dinner and no food.
The landlord still wants his inspection I'm just ignoring them now till new year.
Every day a new brown envelope turns up with more information required for dad's personal affairs.
I'm fighting for breath now just writing all this stuff.
Oh god what am I gonna do.