Hi, Dad has got worse really fast. On Sunday night the carer found him in the floor in the living room so called an ambulance. We arrived and got him up and sat him on the sofa. Ambulance guys turned up after 2hrs and we decided it looked like he'd just slipped off the sofa cos he was slipping while we were sitting by him. When we asked mum how long he'd been on the floor she said a couple of hours! (Mums got alzheimers too btw) she never thought it was a bit weird or to ring us up.
Anyway, we decided not to send him to hospital as he would get angry and upset. So we called the out if hrs gp to come out, they weren't goin to turn up til after midnight so I took him to the docs the next day. Bp and everything were normal but we wanted to rule out a UTI so needed a sample.
Ermm not gonna happen. He got really angry and when doc asked him to do 1 he stood in the loo fir 15mins , not doin anything.
I've rang social services and they are adding another call in the evening to try and coax him into having a wash .
Anyway he's got worse since then. Saw him today and the carers have put in the file that he wet himself this morning. I tried to get him to go to the loo so we could go out and he kept walking in then comin back out. Like he didn't know how to go to the toilet.
It was so upsettung, I even pulled his pants and undies down to see if that'd help but he suddenly got angry so I walked away. We did go out in the car for a coffee but it was like takin a toddler out, I took soare pants with me just incase. It didnt happen thank god.
This has happened so fast, every time I see him, somethin else is missing from him. This is what I didn't want to happen to him, incontinence, well none of us want any of this to happen. I just want him to go from something else, not this! ( I know thats a terrible thing to say).
Sorry for rambling, just crackin up this wk xxx
Anyway, we decided not to send him to hospital as he would get angry and upset. So we called the out if hrs gp to come out, they weren't goin to turn up til after midnight so I took him to the docs the next day. Bp and everything were normal but we wanted to rule out a UTI so needed a sample.
Ermm not gonna happen. He got really angry and when doc asked him to do 1 he stood in the loo fir 15mins , not doin anything.
I've rang social services and they are adding another call in the evening to try and coax him into having a wash .
Anyway he's got worse since then. Saw him today and the carers have put in the file that he wet himself this morning. I tried to get him to go to the loo so we could go out and he kept walking in then comin back out. Like he didn't know how to go to the toilet.
It was so upsettung, I even pulled his pants and undies down to see if that'd help but he suddenly got angry so I walked away. We did go out in the car for a coffee but it was like takin a toddler out, I took soare pants with me just incase. It didnt happen thank god.
This has happened so fast, every time I see him, somethin else is missing from him. This is what I didn't want to happen to him, incontinence, well none of us want any of this to happen. I just want him to go from something else, not this! ( I know thats a terrible thing to say).
Sorry for rambling, just crackin up this wk xxx