Whether tis nobler to suffer the slings and arrows of dementia or guilt.
Apologies to Shakespeare but sums it up I think!
Been caring for Mum & Dad 9 ish years both with dementia. Just Dad (92) for the last few years slowly declining good days & bad. Wants to stay at home and want to honour that but sometime in the future that won't be best for him. Best for me needs to fit in there somewhere too. He has daily carer visits and trips out. Has started wandering off so now has a gps tracker.
My first post! What I'd love to tap into is experiences of when and what I need to be thinking about or planning.
Social services closed the file and the gp doesn't offer much. I've no LPA and no idea where or how long it'd take to select a care home as leaving it till it's needed is probably a bad plan. But denial can be a nice place to be!
I know there's no right or wrong, just got to do the best you can.
Thanks in advance, BB
Apologies to Shakespeare but sums it up I think!
Been caring for Mum & Dad 9 ish years both with dementia. Just Dad (92) for the last few years slowly declining good days & bad. Wants to stay at home and want to honour that but sometime in the future that won't be best for him. Best for me needs to fit in there somewhere too. He has daily carer visits and trips out. Has started wandering off so now has a gps tracker.
My first post! What I'd love to tap into is experiences of when and what I need to be thinking about or planning.
Social services closed the file and the gp doesn't offer much. I've no LPA and no idea where or how long it'd take to select a care home as leaving it till it's needed is probably a bad plan. But denial can be a nice place to be!
I know there's no right or wrong, just got to do the best you can.
Thanks in advance, BB