Today was my eldests 17th birthday. We had a day planned starting off with a 2 hour driving lesson followed by a family meal at the pub in the next village and then him going to see his girl friend tonight.
As you will probably know I take and include dad in almost everything we do and today was no exception but as the time was looming for us to leave for dinner I went out to dads room and he had fell back sleep.
With only an hour to go till our table booking I thought this is gonna be pushing it getting him ready and out the door. So I started worrying what I was going to do and then I stopped and thought this is my sons 17th birthday a really important birthday in our house he can learn to drive now. I made the decision to leave dad where he was. I felt a right meany. But it wasn't fair on my boy. I knew it would end up me concentrating on looking after dad, feeding him etc that it wouldn't be much of a birthday meal.
So off we went I logged into dad cam and we had the meal without him. I felt miserable throughout the whole meal but kept it too myself. Dad should of been with us he's part of our family and I snook off without him.
Dad slept through the whole meal and still is fast asleep he wouldn't even know we've been anywhere but it don't make me feel any better.
As you will probably know I take and include dad in almost everything we do and today was no exception but as the time was looming for us to leave for dinner I went out to dads room and he had fell back sleep.
With only an hour to go till our table booking I thought this is gonna be pushing it getting him ready and out the door. So I started worrying what I was going to do and then I stopped and thought this is my sons 17th birthday a really important birthday in our house he can learn to drive now. I made the decision to leave dad where he was. I felt a right meany. But it wasn't fair on my boy. I knew it would end up me concentrating on looking after dad, feeding him etc that it wouldn't be much of a birthday meal.
So off we went I logged into dad cam and we had the meal without him. I felt miserable throughout the whole meal but kept it too myself. Dad should of been with us he's part of our family and I snook off without him.
Dad slept through the whole meal and still is fast asleep he wouldn't even know we've been anywhere but it don't make me feel any better.