I moved my mother to live closer to me because I thought it would be better for both of us,as I was getting phone calls from police,neighbours etc when she was wandering around her village at night,knocking on people's doors etc. She was also depending on me to do her shopping and take care of appointments etc. She seemed keen to move nearer to me,she knows this town as I have been living here for 25 years. However,now she is here,she is as miserable as she was before. She is never happy,always complaining and does nothing at all all day from what I've observed. I have tried to get her involved in social activities but she 'can't be bothered'. She says awful things behind my back too. I've had enough. Quite frankly,I loathe her and am seriously considering moving away,as far as possible! I'm always amazed at the love and patience people articulate on this forum,so many people are amazing in their capacity to continue in the face of such unrelenting difficulty. I'm afraid Ive run out of all my resources and I just want a life back.