My mum 91, lives alone . Her short term memory is bad and she is unsteady on her feet. Recently had bad fall. She sees no point in gettingout of bed early . Watches tv sport all day . My brother does her shopping an calls in most days . Im there once a week. Im 80 miles away. She says she is bored and lonely . When i suggested a day centre, or a lunch club that was knoccked back. Doesnt want to sit with strangers . I suggested a companion visitor or telephone call. No, dont want to speak to strangers. She basically wants only my brother and I . Its so sad that she is lonely .