Mum has been in a care home for a year and 5 months now and her Alzheimer's is deteriorating rapidly - my sister and I thought it was, but it has also been echoed by the carers at the home.
Mum went through several months of being very frustrated and angry, frequently hammering on doors with her fists to get out until she hurt herself, and a couple of times pushing other people in her desire to get out of the home. So she is now on rispiradone which has taken so much of her personality away. We (my sister and I) feel that it is better for her to be on the drug and reasonably content and accepting life, rather than being constantly angry and frustrated as she was before, but it is heartbreaking to see.
I have noticed that more and more she does not make sense when she speaks - she clearly knows what she wants to say, but she cannot get the words out in a coherent sentence. I find myself having to try and guess what she is trying to say and reply to her accordingly. I feel so inadequate that I can't help her communicate, is there any way that I can do better at this?
She cannot read a book or even follow a TV programme any more, so my visits are pretty much a monologue from me about what I've been doing, about my dogs who come with me (Mum loves dogs), about anything really. I noticed this time I opened the curtains so she could see out of the window and she wanted to ask me questions about where she was, but she couldn't get the words out. I'm in tears even typing this, as I am sure you all know it is so difficult.
Mum went through several months of being very frustrated and angry, frequently hammering on doors with her fists to get out until she hurt herself, and a couple of times pushing other people in her desire to get out of the home. So she is now on rispiradone which has taken so much of her personality away. We (my sister and I) feel that it is better for her to be on the drug and reasonably content and accepting life, rather than being constantly angry and frustrated as she was before, but it is heartbreaking to see.
I have noticed that more and more she does not make sense when she speaks - she clearly knows what she wants to say, but she cannot get the words out in a coherent sentence. I find myself having to try and guess what she is trying to say and reply to her accordingly. I feel so inadequate that I can't help her communicate, is there any way that I can do better at this?
She cannot read a book or even follow a TV programme any more, so my visits are pretty much a monologue from me about what I've been doing, about my dogs who come with me (Mum loves dogs), about anything really. I noticed this time I opened the curtains so she could see out of the window and she wanted to ask me questions about where she was, but she couldn't get the words out. I'm in tears even typing this, as I am sure you all know it is so difficult.