Hi I don't live close to my mum but do visit every week. Lately she thinks i'm going to go every day. She messages me on the phone saying 'tell me when you set out' and I reply immediately letting her know when i'll be going and that i'm not there today. She doesn't read that and gets more and more anxious and upset saying i've let her down and she's so disappointed as the day goes on. She sits in her coat and shoes most the day after her carer has been. I write details on her calendar but she now doesn't really refer to that at all. I tried writing it on the fridge, this wasn't effective. She has a dementia clock and i guide her to that but it doesn't stop this process every morning, On occasion she will answer the phone so i can calm her down, but she only answers about one call in 10. Any tips or advice anyone?