I posted the other day about mum needing to be in a care home with constant suppprt and the wheels are very slowly moving in that direction but in the meantime I feel like I’m going mad. Mums ringing me all the time, day and night. She will say she’s breathless and then say please come and hang up. Then ring back and I try to speak with her to help her relax and then because I’m not doing what she asks (rush round) she’ll hang up again. I was with her for 3 hours the other day, I washed her hair, had a chat and lunch and then within half an hour of me being home she’s ringing about me coming up. Some of the time she’s forgotten I’ve been there, I understand this can occur, but it’s so difficult because she’s so stubborn about chatting on the phone and demands I go. A lot of the time I do, but sometimes I’m at work and taking my sons somewhere and I can’t get there. I should also explain the breathless is down to panic- physically she’s been checked over and is ok. I feel like I’ll go mad if the phone rings one more time!
Mum is being allocated a social worker and I’ve requested a needs assessment but it’s so hard in the meantime. She’s rung the police to ask them to call me.
My mum has always been a dependent person but at the moment it is really difficult to help her to manage how she’s feeling because of how she behaves if you don’t do what she wants.
I hope it all makes sense.
Mum is being allocated a social worker and I’ve requested a needs assessment but it’s so hard in the meantime. She’s rung the police to ask them to call me.
My mum has always been a dependent person but at the moment it is really difficult to help her to manage how she’s feeling because of how she behaves if you don’t do what she wants.
I hope it all makes sense.