Hi everyone
Recently booked my mum into respite care whilst I was visiting my son abroad so that she’d be safe and have company as my brother works and I didn’t want her to be alone
Took her under the guise of a coffee morn as she’d already said that she didn’t want to stay anywhere even though at times she says she hates her flat and feels frightened
All went well and I left her in the care of the wonderful staff but unfortunately by the evening they had to call my brother as she was making such a fuss they couldn’t settle her
What bothers me is if she gets to the point where she needs full time care I don’t know how to deal with it
She’s not mentioned it since I’ve been home but talking to family I hear i wasn’t the good daughter she thought I was
Massive guilt trip here so wondered if anyone has had similar problems
Thankyou for taking the time to read this
Recently booked my mum into respite care whilst I was visiting my son abroad so that she’d be safe and have company as my brother works and I didn’t want her to be alone
Took her under the guise of a coffee morn as she’d already said that she didn’t want to stay anywhere even though at times she says she hates her flat and feels frightened
All went well and I left her in the care of the wonderful staff but unfortunately by the evening they had to call my brother as she was making such a fuss they couldn’t settle her
What bothers me is if she gets to the point where she needs full time care I don’t know how to deal with it
She’s not mentioned it since I’ve been home but talking to family I hear i wasn’t the good daughter she thought I was
Massive guilt trip here so wondered if anyone has had similar problems
Thankyou for taking the time to read this