mum is in a NH on EOL care . I am with her every day but I am nor sure if I can sustain this , the staff seem ok but are busy .
I dread being there and having to prompt them to give the anticipatory medication.
Mum has been there three weeks with minimal fluid or food intake, she is on pain patches and paracetamol , She has AD which accelerated after a UTI a fall and hospitalisation.
I want to make sure she has a dignified pain free death as I let her down by not moving in with her to look after her, I thought about it so many times and thought we had so much more time , she had carers and my sister was her main carer as she lives close.
has anyone experienced this please
I dread being there and having to prompt them to give the anticipatory medication.
Mum has been there three weeks with minimal fluid or food intake, she is on pain patches and paracetamol , She has AD which accelerated after a UTI a fall and hospitalisation.
I want to make sure she has a dignified pain free death as I let her down by not moving in with her to look after her, I thought about it so many times and thought we had so much more time , she had carers and my sister was her main carer as she lives close.
has anyone experienced this please