Don't give up. The wheels of the council move slowly, and like your other reply, when it's done it will be backdated, and should be automatic for next year's tax. By the way, has anyone had the experience of their partner not communicating? my wife knows who I am, but when I pose a question she just stares at me, and I struggle to get an answer. She also seems to have lost a lot of her mobility. At lest I have got the help now from from Community Nurses. They have provided continence pants. Also Social care sent nurses from the department who assess my wife's physical needs. They are going to provide equipment for help with bathing, toilet, and getting in and out of bed. This is all great, and I am also going toget help from Social Care to help with washing, and personal hygiene. My wife, though, is suspicious of all this, and as she is a very private person, may resist. However, it all helps, but as any carer will tell you, it's the emotional trauma, for which there is only limited help. Not moaning, but would like to know if anyone has experienced this behaviour.