Christmas visiting

[jackdog35]

My dad went for lunch at my mum’s care home today. The food was good but my mum was so angry and aggressive towards to him. He was on the verge of tears a few times today. I’m just wondering if he should lessen the amount of times he goes. At the moment it’s three times a week. She’s not always that difficult but he’s finding it very hard to cope with the situation

 

[SeaSwallow]

Hello @jackdog35 it might be an idea for your dad to cut back on visiting for his healths sake. Either you or your dad could call the home to make sure your mum is OK. It is so hard to get the balance right.