Hello. My name is Lisa. I found this group to help me get some support and information regarding dementia and my family member. My 89 year old aunt came to live with me after my parents passed. It's now almost 3 years she has been with me. She fell back in April and broke her hip and femur. As a result she had surgery and has since been recouperating in rehab. Unfortunately, her dementia appears to have gotten worse and of course it's affecting her recovery. She ended up with pneumonia and a uti with sepsis a week and a half ago. She went back to the rehab last Thursday and while the sepsis and infections cleared up her dementia is taking it's toll and she has eaten very tiny bites of food if anything and minimal water. When she does eat or drink she chokes. She is on pureed food now but it doesn't matter, she just has no desire to eat. They are not able to give her her medication at times throughout the day because of this. My heart is broken as I do not know what to expect and how much longer we have together. I know no one knows, but I am doing my best to cope with this and make her as comfortable as possible until then. The doctor is recommending comfort care and I know the next steps will be hospice. Any feedback would be so very appreciated.