I check the site regularily and thanks to everyone I gather lots of ideas and help but wonder if anyone can help with this
My Mum has 2 photographs in frames of my son 1 when he was about 5 and one when he was about 8 (he is now 15) which she insists on carrying around with her and she talks to them and trys to put food and drink out for them even left the tv on all night for them the other night. I have tried to explain they are just photos don't eat drink talk etc and that the big tall boy at home is the real one to no avail. My son gets upset that his Nan makes a big fuss of these photos but does not seem to know who he is. In the younger photo he has much blonder hair and did not wear glasses so I think this may be why. She used to look after him a couple of days a week when he was little and remembers taking him to the park and to nursery and school, Any ideas on how to make her realise the pictures and her grandson are the sme person.
Another thing I have arrived at her place a few times lately to be told why did you come earlier and go again I have been all around town looking for you but gave up Also had one phone call at 6am to say had just come back from looking around town for me. Am really worried about her wandering around the town at 5am have tried to explain I would not go in and leave again but she insists I have.
Sorry about the long winded whinge everything just getting a bit on top of me lately.
My Mum has 2 photographs in frames of my son 1 when he was about 5 and one when he was about 8 (he is now 15) which she insists on carrying around with her and she talks to them and trys to put food and drink out for them even left the tv on all night for them the other night. I have tried to explain they are just photos don't eat drink talk etc and that the big tall boy at home is the real one to no avail. My son gets upset that his Nan makes a big fuss of these photos but does not seem to know who he is. In the younger photo he has much blonder hair and did not wear glasses so I think this may be why. She used to look after him a couple of days a week when he was little and remembers taking him to the park and to nursery and school, Any ideas on how to make her realise the pictures and her grandson are the sme person.
Another thing I have arrived at her place a few times lately to be told why did you come earlier and go again I have been all around town looking for you but gave up Also had one phone call at 6am to say had just come back from looking around town for me. Am really worried about her wandering around the town at 5am have tried to explain I would not go in and leave again but she insists I have.
Sorry about the long winded whinge everything just getting a bit on top of me lately.