Hi.
I have been a daily lurker.
So my LO was placed into care with late stage AD 2 years ago.
Always been mobile and fit as a flea dementia aside.
Anyway Oct 23 after a hospital stint due to abdo pain and blood transfusion and iron transfusion due to very low HB she was found by ultra sound to have a "mass" in her uterine lining. It was decided due to how bad her dementia was investigations and treatment wouldn't take place - The diagnosis without any further exploration was cancer - stage unknown.
Fast forward to Feb 24 she has slept a lot more, some days only waking for 3 hours or so in stints, become more withdrawn, always in her room asleep very rarley in the lounge/dining room now.
The doctor was called out yesterday due to a 4 day period of almost constant sleeping, weight loss, and very little food. Pre empt EOL drugs were issued, and the care home manager is this morning making a fast track for CHC from residential to nursing (within the home she is in) .... it just all seems so sudden, so not right, she dosnt look like the stereotypical dying person if that makes sense. She can still with assistance get into her easy chair. She is only 72! I suppose what I'm trying to ask and I know that EOL care can last months and the pre empt drugs are not in use as yet but .... is she really in the transition of entering her terminal phase? The care assistant in me knows yes... the Beloved Daughter in Law in me says "Noooo nah not K .... that's impossible" ..... What are other peoples experience of pre empt EOL drugs and fast track nursing requests? Xxxx
I have been a daily lurker.
So my LO was placed into care with late stage AD 2 years ago.
Always been mobile and fit as a flea dementia aside.
Anyway Oct 23 after a hospital stint due to abdo pain and blood transfusion and iron transfusion due to very low HB she was found by ultra sound to have a "mass" in her uterine lining. It was decided due to how bad her dementia was investigations and treatment wouldn't take place - The diagnosis without any further exploration was cancer - stage unknown.
Fast forward to Feb 24 she has slept a lot more, some days only waking for 3 hours or so in stints, become more withdrawn, always in her room asleep very rarley in the lounge/dining room now.
The doctor was called out yesterday due to a 4 day period of almost constant sleeping, weight loss, and very little food. Pre empt EOL drugs were issued, and the care home manager is this morning making a fast track for CHC from residential to nursing (within the home she is in) .... it just all seems so sudden, so not right, she dosnt look like the stereotypical dying person if that makes sense. She can still with assistance get into her easy chair. She is only 72! I suppose what I'm trying to ask and I know that EOL care can last months and the pre empt drugs are not in use as yet but .... is she really in the transition of entering her terminal phase? The care assistant in me knows yes... the Beloved Daughter in Law in me says "Noooo nah not K .... that's impossible" ..... What are other peoples experience of pre empt EOL drugs and fast track nursing requests? Xxxx