My dad is very ill with dementia. He sleeps most of the time, has some vague awareness of what is going on around him, but is mostly in some strange fantasy land from the past. He does recognise his children, still eats quite well, and is still just about mobile. He does have various other medical issues and we don't think he has long to go. The dementia came on quite slowly at first, maybe a year or two ago, but then he very rapidly deteriorated earlier this year. He was admitted to hospital from his residential home in February as he had really take a turn for the worse and they could not cope. Also because a UTI was suspected, however, this was not the cause of his delirium. He ended up staying in hospital as the Residential Home would not take him back and in fact the hospital would not discharge him to there anyway. We had great difficulty finding a nursing home that would take him and the NHS finally found one for him after about 4 weeks in hospital. It's not the best, but it's good enough, and he has some carers who work really well with him. The problem is that it is very far from all 6 of his children - very far, but not impossible. He has been in the new home for just over two months now during which time his health has continued to deteriorate. Some of my siblings (there are 6 of us) have been looking for homes that are nearer and easier to get to, and have now found somewhere. What do people think about moving him again - it would be the third time this year...? Would the fact that he would get more frequent visits outweigh the fact that he will be confused and disoriented by the move? Or would it hasten him towards h
the end? I would really appreciate hearing what people think. Thank you.
the end? I would really appreciate hearing what people think. Thank you.